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fun fact: “nolo” is latin for “do not want” so if someone says yolo you can say nolo and they’ll think its just a stupid comeback but in all actuality you’re speaking latin which is classy as shit so haha the jokes on them
and it means “(you’re) embarrassing” in finnish so it’s double joke on them
(via kendallslogiebear)Source: snickerpoodles
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Fuck i’m crying now
So my mother was up to her usual shit; calling me useless and entitled. Saying that I’m no longer allowed in the bathroom with a shower and I need to clean the other one by noon tomorrow morning or else
keep in mind it hasn’t worked in 3 years.
I was hiding in my bedroom while my parents argued over who’s fault I was when my sister came in. She walked up to me and opened up her fist revealing a rainbow popsicle ‘best friends’ necklace. She thrust it into my hand and whispered that she wanted me to have it.
"because it’s a popsicle?" I asked
"no silly because it’s a rainbow. I know- I mean- I thought you’d like it."
She then winked and told me that I no longer needed to worry about cleaning the bathroom because she had spent the past hour doing it for me.
This seems so petty and small until you realize that for the past two years my parents have been doing their darnest to get rid of me. My sister will admit that I’ve always been the scapegoat but since I came out it seems their attacks are more pointed.
My sister is 11. She has grown up in a homophobic home and listened to my parents bitch about “those damn gays” her entire life. A couple months ago I came out to her and told her the reason our parents have been threatening to kick me out or send me away. I explained that sometimes gay girls and gay boys are even beaten up by people, just because of who they love.
I cannot express how much her support means to me; perhaps I am not the one who’s wrong. If an 11 year old who has been taught nothing but hate, perhaps there is hope for the future.
If you dont fucking reblog this I hope you get thrown off a cliff into a pool of fucking legos.
Two words: Child Services
Look I know it’s hard living with parents that don’t love you. I know deep down inside you just hope day after day that somehow something will change that…change them. But you have to accept that it won’t just get better if you just keep doing nothing.
Don’t just tell Tumblr this is happening to you. Tell some one who matters. Some one who can help. There are a TON of services that can get you out of such a horrible situation. And don’t try to push it off to the side under the reasoning that ‘well if my parents get in trouble what will happen to my sister?’ or ‘I might never see her again’ cause chances are if your parents are doing this to you, her life won’t be much better in the future. It’s better to take steps to fix the problem rather than just hope it goes away by itself. Because it won’t. Miracles only happen if you search for them, waiting for one to come to you will only leave you miserable.
I get messages like this a lot (I mean A LOT) so i’m going to try and answer this as kindly and compassionately as I can.
I have visited my school’s psychologist twice now and told her my coming out story and about the two years that followed. I told her that my mother calls me slurs and threatens me and she looked me in the eye and told me there wasn’t a thing she could do. I told my best friend’s mother than mine had threatened to kill me and she said that I was probably making it up. I sat with my climbing coach for two hours and told him that my parents continuously kick me out of the house and that I’m afraid that someday I won’t have a home to go to and he hasn’t done a thing.
The adults in my life are unwilling to recognize emotional manipulation as abuse. Unless I produce physical signs NOTHING will be reported.
Second I would like to point out that I don’t know you, and you honestly can’t know me very well.
If you knew me you would know that I am not stupid. I know that my mother is a horrible, stubborn and selfish person and I don’t ever expect her to change.
If you knew me you would know that I have considered my options. Last year I told my best friend that I was physically abused as a child, something that I had never acknowledged before. As I sat across from her in the girl’s locker room and watched her sob I honestly considered asking for help. I honestly considered it but I didn’t because it was scary! It meant possible entering a foster system that I had been warned about as a child and it meant my parents hating me and it meant uncertainty. I realized that my sister is absolutely adored by my mother because of her chronic illness. She would never be harmed so I decided to stay quiet.
If you knew me you would know that I have done SO much more than nothing. I’ve hacked firewalls that my parents have put up to prevent me from “turning more gay” and I’ve secretly gone to GSA meetings. I’ve snuck out and gone into the city to visit LGBT Youth Centers and stuffed pamphlets, phone numbers and email addresses in my mattress. I started working out and trying to tone my muscles to be sure that I am always bigger than the bully. I’ve networked with people in my area- and ended up with an amazing group of friends who are willing to pick me up when my parents kick me out and listen to me bitch at 3 in the morning and let me crash at their place because goddammit I have nowhere else to go. I don’t consider that doing nothing, I consider that surviving.
Lastly I would like to point out that you are not me. This is not your life, nor anyone else’s but mine. I hardly think it’s fair for people to read one story I wrote (one that I never expected anyone else to see) and decide that I am living my life wrong or incompletely. If another person was in this situation they might decide that they want out but I don’t feel that is the right choice for me.
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if you’re over 18 on this website please consider these fun activites: not bullying people under the age of 16
if you’re any age on this website consider these fun activities: not bullying anyone of any age seriously what the fuck does your age have to do with it just don’t fucking bully people? what the fuck
(via kendallslogiebear)Source: latias
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two robots who are girlfriends and one is super high tech and the other is kind of a cheap poorly made model and shes really self conscious compared to her shiny new state of the art girlfriend but the high tech girlfriend is like shhshhshh no baby ur adorable glitches and faulty parts and all
So basically lesbian wall.e?
I LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK YOU’RE HIRED
(via mochimistress)Source: mecto--amorous